Parenting from the stands

Originally published by Los Angeles Sports & Fitness, September/October 2016.

Toward the end of an u14 girls’ soccer game, a father yelled to his daughter, “Don’t forget to have fun.” The comment stood out because it was the first positive comment from a parent during the entire game. I turned to another player standing near me, and asked, “How are you supposed to have fun when you are yelled at constantly?” She rolled her eyes and said, “Tell me about it.”  […]

Burnout and Long-Term Player Development

Cross Over: The New Model of Youth Basketball Development presents a gradual four-stage progression for player development over a period of years. The book outlines an alternative to the early specialization, game-heavy model used by most youth leagues and programs. In Massachusetts, youth hockey organizations are making changes similar to those outlined in Cross Over. Read more about Burnout and Long-Term Player Development[…]

Avoid the Fast Track to Youth Sports’ Burnout

Originally published in Los Angeles Sports & Fitness, March/April 2009. This week, I looked at the roster for a Division I women’s program to check on a player that I had watched in high school. She was no longer on the roster. I emailed a high school coach and asked about the girl, and he Read more about Avoid the Fast Track to Youth Sports’ Burnout[…]